Was taking bus 69 with winston, mel, jy. Jy alighted at her usual stop and after that, 3 secondary 1 girls from a famous school board the bus at the next stop.
This was what happened. They board the bus and they pay using cash. Well, student what, so the fare would be $0.45. Sadly, 2 of them only have enough (or 1) money to pay for $0.40. So the bus auntie, who needs to earn a living, or else she will get scolding from her top management. So, she nicely "demanded" that she pays $0.50.
The 3 girls, being CAL (Chao Ah Lian), was "buay song" about it. Started to scold, curse, swear at the poor bus auntie. This thing never end until the bus reaches interchange.
It goes on like these....
After settling the fare thing, one sat next to Melissa(haha, ask her to sit with me and Winston, she dont want, then she suffers) then the other 2 sat at individual seats. One of them started to blast her speaker with techno/heavy rock music (aka noise at times). Then they started scolding Smelly Vagina, Penis etc etc. Omg, poor upbringing, i must say.
They say it so loudly so that the "old bitch"[that's what they call her] driving can hear. Then the next comment came from 1 girl to the driver.
"Stare what Stare"
Not trying to say my English is fabulous, but Stare what Stare is a poor sentence formed. Want to be Ah Lian, also be a class one la! So paiseh..If better English speakers [who dont know hokkien] were to hear things like "LanJiao", "Chao Chi Bai" and they questioned about what's that. I think it will be quite shameful as one has to explain the meaning behind all these words. Imagine this scene...
Ah Lian A: CCB #$%^&*(
English Speaker: What's that?
I explained: She is trying to say "Smelly Vagina"
English Speaker: ....
I: ..... (hides myself)
Anyway, back to the girls. One of the girls who has hairstyle like SCB (siao char bo), said that I'm proud of those vandalizes blah blah....
Now we all know who are culprits for all the vandalism on the bus chairs. SCB is also the one who blast the music loud loud, and speak loud loud. Like what they like to say. Loud Loud!
Like i said earlier...
Quite devastating to hear Secondary 1 students scolding CCB etc etc...
every day is a new day ♥
Saturday, August 25, 2007 ;
3:22 AM
For 2 hours, 2 whole hours, yet it seems like 20 hours. This is how my mum, my neighbour and i feel.
It started at around 12.10am. They were quarrelling at the lift area, it grew louder and make my parents and neigbours awake. Wondering what happen, we went down and see. Though my mom asked me not to interfere but, the quarrel seems agressive. True enough, we went down and we saw Mother and Daughter(holding the key lock, the heavy metal thing) quarrelling.
She was extremely agitated, constantly shouting and crying. Had a few breakdowns in front of us. We saw her mom, barefooted, standing at the lift area, we wondered why. Immediately, her daughter screaming that her mom is some kind of big shot, who wants to go my another neighbour house to wash her legs and also saying that her legs are dirty and she cannot step into the house.
She was crying and crying, and her mother seems helpless. After persuading her to return home, my neighbour, my mom and i walked them back to their flat and we bid goodbye and we left. Not long after her mom ran towards us, claiming that her daughter used the lock and hit her head.
Her daughter of course ran after her. The girl's mother ran to my house for "protection", while washing her legs as well. My neighbour, neighbour's daughter, my mom and i was comforting her downstairs. Slowly...slowly, she began to say all her unhappiness.
She claimed that her father passed away, her grandmother committed suicide (i heard from my mom is because she had some serious illnesses). And since then, from young, she and her mum were living together.
To her, everyday was like a torture. Everyday, when she returned home, she will face the 4 cold walls. Her mom was working (as a nurse) for her. As you all know, nurse job is like a shift work, therefore interaction will be lesser. Since young, her mother loves to compare her results with other people. (that's what she claims)
She says her mother dont care about her. At that point of time, suddenly, there were flashbacks inside my mind. I know...i know when i was younger, i said the same thing to my parents. They must be very hurt at that time. At that moment i can feel the pain in my heart. I dont know why.
As she continue speaking, she suddenly grew agitated again, with her tears coming out like tap water. Out of a sudden, she pushed me and my neighbour away, claiming that she wants to jump down the building. She said things like why was she born into this world, what is the use of her coming to this world, i will never want to be her daughter and things like that.Of course, my neighbour and i grabbed her back. Boy, it was a horrifying experience.
Meanwhile, i heard from my dad that the mother was contacting her sister(who is also the girl's auntie) to come. The girl was crying and crying and yet i do not know how to help her. I'm only able to hold her while my neighbour was trying to liven up the atmosphere by saying how she enjoyed life.
I think i saw the girl was smiling. But i do not know whether isst me who saw or it was just my imagination. Finally, she wants to go home, so my mom went to call her mom down. And really, the girl's mother really took a long while before coming down. The girl, suddenly went agitated again, saying that her mother was some big shot, must let people begged her to come down. Of course, we all know that her mom was afraid that by showing up, she will further agitate the girl.
After a while, we followed her back, afraid that she will suddenly jump down again. She broke down again, begging us not to follow her. But we really got no choice.In the end, we compromised that by the count of 3, we shall go our seperate ways. So, 1..2...3, we went our seperate ways, the 2 of them went back. Being worried, we all stood at the corriders to hope that this thing was over.
And bad enough, the same thing happened. The girl used the lock to hit her mom's head again. Haix! Why did she have to do that for? I can even imagine how it feels like to be hammered by that metal lock. They ran back to our side again. And the whole thing repeated itself again. Her mom ran to my house to hide again and we are there comforting her. My neighbour was still trying to comfort her.After a long while, i talked to her.
She was only 22. I'm 17. Easier to talk. I was talking to her about her education, what job she is holding now. She said that her results was good in her primary and secondary school days, yet her mom is still not statisfied. I told her about my plight too. I told her that though i get many Cs last time, i am still able to live my everyday life to the fullest. She nodded her head in agreement and again, i think i saw her smiling.
After that, i asked her about her job, she says that she is currently an accountant in a company, and also working part time as a tution teacher, teaching Maths. I told her that is good. Yet she said that, though my jobs are good, whenever she goes home, she will still face the emptiness at home. At that point she went "bersek" again, saying : " If i had not had done all these things, she(her mom) wouldnt have care about me" , we can see that she is hoping to gain her mother's attention. Haix.
Suddenly the lift went, "ding....." a person came out, it was her aunt. Goodness, she broke down again. Scolding her mom for involving so many people. Haix after that, she keep asking her auntie to go home. And that dragged for another 20 mins or so.
We asked the aunt to go down first while we hoped to persuade them to go home. Well, this time, the mother and daughter went home. The moment the daughter stepped inside of their house, she asked her mother to go away as her legs were not clean (her mom came my house to wash legs), complaining that she didnt use soap and wash. *Faints* Her mom, ran back to my house again to wash.
And the whole thing continues for another 20 mins or so. Seriously i feel like slapping her. But i know i cant. However at some point of time, i was very harsh on her. Saying that how unfilial she is...My neighbour was like asking me not to speak anymore, but i dont care. I was speaking like as if i am a parent myself.
Haix, after a long while, she managed to went home, together with her mom who washed her legs 3 times at my house( with water, soap) they went back home, with the auntie accompanying them. Now, im worried.
I dont hope to know any suicidal case next morning. I hope there is no "loud" thud later too.
Haix..
This mother-daughter really makes me sad and pissed at the same time. She was crying very badly at one point, and her mother was walking away from her, yet she was crying for her mother not to leave. But the mother continue walking away from her, thinking that her daughter asking her to move away. We were like, auntie can you stop moving away.
Seriously at some point, i really dont know what were they thinking.
But through this incident, i have realised something. Communication is really important in your family. I believe there is a lack of communication between them. Ever since she lost her grandma, i believe that is also the time where she became "depressed". Even if the mother dont show her care and concern towards her, the mother should at least gives her a hug or the other way round.
When is the time we really hug your parents and say " I love you" or " I appreciate your effort in raising me up all these years"? Do you even remember? I bet everyone only remembers how their parents scolded them, not knowing what you want. Sometimes, a hug, a kiss and a talk really helps. Though they may not know how to express their love, care and concern to us. But we all know, every parent in these world loves their kids, no matter how they looked like, how they behaved.
Go on, tell your parents i love you now! Do treasure them! Talk to them if you have any unhappiness. Dont suppress it inside your heart. It will only make you think of negaitve stuffs. No matter how your parents treat you, remember, they always love you.
every day is a new day ♥
Tuesday, August 21, 2007 ;
10:28 PM
I saw this rather interesting pic in this SG's Secret. Oh, by the way, that 83 kg isnt me. I dont weigh that heavy but nevertheless, i am fat and i belong to the TAF club society.
every day is a new day ♥
Sunday, August 19, 2007 ;
12:53 AM
Splendid time ytd (17th Aug). Celebrating Shina's Birthday at Bugis Area.
Bought 18 little presents for her and delivered to her house before she reached home. Well, she is a JC students, so poor girl, always got timetable to follow, unlike poly. winks*
the 18 gifts compromise of food, drinks, and something to use. (shina: plz practice safe *** with the HUGE thing we gave you! WAHAHA!!)
We met her at Bugis junction and we walked her to some steamboat shop opp bugis next to Ritz Apple Strudel. well, i have not have mala huo guo before so i dont know how isst supposed to taste like and look like. But then the one that was served was oil.
and i drank 1 bowl of it. o...m....g...
See that full bowl of liquid in the pic. Yup, i drank that bowl of "oil". AND THERE IS NO AIR-CONDITIONING THERE! well cracked lots of jokes etc...but it's internal. HAHA! But there are really "good food" there. Chickens from China. Mmm...Yummy. Could use 1 of shina's gift. HAHA...
KIDDING!
Oh ya, i didnt know there was a goldfish in the resturant there too. Funny Scene.
The scene is like these... We arrived at our tables, realising that one of the chairs was changed to a stool.(whatever it is called) then i asked that Indo-waiter (winston assumed it to be) to change for us. So hewent to the table next to ours and took it w/o asking. At that point, there was a bag on the chair.
Indo Waiter : (moves and exchanged our chair.while placing the bag on the new chair.)
A lady was sitting there and saw this happening. Immediately, she stared at the waiter.
Lady: Stared...Stared...Stared.....
10 secs later.....
still staring.... 5 secs later..lady's friend(the exchanged chair owner) came back.....
Lady, continue staring.... LOL! Speak what's on your mind la! Stare for wad? Eyes popping out la! Trying to aim for the World Records isst? For having the longest stare.
That's why i named her goldfish. HAHA.
Our "Yuan Yang" Soup!
Winston claimed that this was his "balls" HAHA!
A pic of jas and i after leaving Shina's hse. This is also the place where we ran for 2.4km in our sec sch days! Right beside a canal full of luo han fishes.I'm a rich tai-tai. And we formed the number "00"
Winston die die also dunt wan to take pic. But this pic is nice. Quite "artistic". But credits goes to me of coz! Coz im inside!
this pic was taken in the bubble lift in bugis. We travelled from the 2nd floor to the 3rd floor, then to the B2 den to B1 just to get this pic done. Somemore with the help of a passer-by who appears to be in a state of shock when approached.
ORRR-HOORR!! Teacher( wins and my hands raised up)They are les-ing...and they kissed.
农历7月 it's the time for the year. Hungry Ghost Festival. Pls keep a lookout and refrain from staying out till too late. You might never know what is following you home......
but i do welcome overnite mahjong~ hehee~
till then, dont stay out too late...gotta mug for exams soon too~ ciao~
every day is a new day ♥
Thursday, August 9, 2007 ;
2:43 AM
Just finished watching Just Follow Law.
Had the urge to visit Lao Zhar Bo's blog, from her blog, i saw something abt xiaxue blogging somethings abt her. Then, from there, i saw Steven Lim's Video. OMG la its damn funny can!
Was laughing like no tml. But shall not comment. Haha! Regrading the Disgusting BLogs. Kinda of support her for some on the list.
bleahx.
Anyway, shall end this post by showing this scene in Just Follow Law. DAMN FUNNY! Muthu is funny! start watching from 50 secs onwards! WATCH TILL LAST PART!!!
every day is a new day ♥
Monday, August 6, 2007 ;
1:32 AM
it was a long update.
nth much to update either.
wasting my time doing rubbish?
what fulfilling life im spending.
every day is a new day ♥
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